One of the biggest problems with money is our feelings about it are always relative. So many people assume once they hit a certain level of income or net worth that all of their problems will magically vanish. Unfortunately, what typically happens when you make and save more money is you begin comparing yourself to people who have more than you, instead of your previous levels of wealth. Lifestyle creep causes you to spend more and more to keep up and since there are always going to be people richer than you, it’s difficult to feel wealthy even when you are. Bloomberg has a new survey that asks people how rich they feel: Even people with millions of dollars don’t always feel rich. My contention is it’s hard to consider yourself wealthy if you still worry about money all the time. The quotes from some of the survey respondents are telling in this regard: “Ten years ago if I had told myself I was making the money I am now, I’d be flabbergasted. I would’ve said I was living it up,” he said. “Now, while I’m financially secure, it doesn’t feel like I’m making the dollar amount I’m making.” “Honestly the more money you make, the more your lifestyle kind of changes a lot,” he said. “Your vacations and the restaurants you go to are more expensive.” This is the perfect encapsulation of lifestyle creep and why some mythical number in the future probably won’t solve all of your problems. Younger you would probably be blown away by how much you make but older you is a completely different person with different preferences and responsibilities. Here’s another one: Despite owning a home worth almost $900,000 in Dallas and a condo in Hawaii, Tom Thompson and his wife don’t feel rich. In fact, having more money has just resulted in more bills. The 54-year-old is feeling the pressure of inflation, especially as he prepares to pay for his 18-year-old son’s college tuition. Despite an annual household income of about $450,000, Thompson worries about his job stability at an ad agency where losing a big client could mean a layoff. “We’re not living paycheck to paycheck, but I feel like we have looming expenses,” he said. “My personal definition of rich is the ability to buy or participate without concern, and I do not have that.” Six-figure income. Owns a home. Owns a condo in Hawaii. Still doesn’t feel rich. Probably never will. This is one of the reasons financial advisors act more like therapists than number-crunchers with many of their clients. We all have a weird relationship with money in some form or another. We all struggle with this feeling, and I am no different. Thinking that when our investment account hits X – then I can be happy and not worry. After working with clients for the last decade I can attest, this simply does not happen! It’s counterintuitive, but many people overestimate how much they will need based on their spending habits because it can be so psychologically challenging to spend money in retirement. My favorite research on this topic comes from an Employee Benefit Research Institute study in 2018 that analyzed the spending habits of retirees during their first two decades of retirement:
The crazy thing about these results is the more secure people were in retirement, the less they spent relative to the size of their wealth. The dichotomy here is there are millions of people who are woefully underprepared for retirement from some combination of a low income or a lack of planning. Then there are those people who are prepared but cannot stop worrying about money enough to enjoy it – and this is what I am seeing more every day. Look, I’m not saying everyone has to die with zero. Having a low burn rate is certainly the best hedge against longevity risk in retirement. But what’s the point of saving in the first place if you’re not going to spend some of it? If you’re reading this, you’re more than likely going to pass with more wealth than you think. Book that vacation, complete that renovation, make those memories – that is what wealth is for.
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AuthorBrandon Yanchus is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ with over a decade of experience. This is his personal blog where he shares what he's learned helping families, professionals, business owners and retirees grow and protect their wealth. Archives
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